Rehoboam’s Pride, Elijah’s Fire & the Voice You’re Missing | 1 Kings 12-13; 17–22 CFM

Choose This Day: Finding Christ in the Divided Kingdoms of Our Lives

Quite frankly, I am grateful for the many people who have come into my life and spoken to me directly, compassionately, and with genuine understanding. They showed patience and grace without sitting in judgment over me. They met me in difficult and messy moments, listened to what I was carrying, and helped me confront unhealthy attitudes and behaviors without condemning me.

Yet, if I am completely honest, I have also carried resentment, bitterness, self-hatred, and anger toward people whom I believed had betrayed, ignored, or abandoned me.

Every one of us is shaped—lifted, wounded, strengthened, or misled—by the voices we choose to follow.

Families may rise or fall because of those voices. Communities may flourish or fracture because of them. Our faith may deepen or drift depending on whose counsel we trust and whose influence we permit to guide our decisions.

Much of the pain we carry may be traced to someone who used influence selfishly—or to someone who possessed the ability to help but refused to use it.

The opposite is also true.

Some of the deepest healing we experience comes through Christlike leaders, mentors, friends, and disciples who choose to show up, serve, and sacrifice. They meet us in places where others might pass by. They take time to understand, comfort, encourage, and help us move forward without excusing destructive behavior or enabling us to remain stuck.

That tension between selfish influence and Christlike service stands at the heart of this week’s Come, Follow Me study for June 29–July 5: “If the Lord Be God, Follow Him,” covering 1 Kings 12–13 and 17–22.

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The Battle Is the Lord’s: Facing Your Goliath with Faith in Jesus Christ

Come Follow Me | June 15-21 | “The battle is the Lord’s.” —1 Samuel 17:47

There are seasons in life when the challenge standing before us seems larger than our faith, stronger than our resolve, and better equipped than anything we possess. We may know the language of faith, remember the promises of scripture, and sincerely believe that God is with us, yet the giant still appears to dominate the valley. It calls attention to our weakness, rehearses our failures, magnifies our fears, and confidently predicts our defeat.

For one person, that giant may be addiction or the relentless temptation to return to an old way of living. For another, it may be grief, rejection, loneliness, financial uncertainty, family conflict, shame, resentment, or the lingering consequences of decisions that cannot be undone. Some giants appear suddenly, while others have occupied the valley for years, issuing the same challenge every morning and evening until fear begins to feel like the natural condition of life.

The Come, Follow Me lesson for June 15–21, covering 1 Samuel 17–18; 24–26 and 2 Samuel 5–7, invites us to look again at David’s story and hear his declaration that “the battle is the Lord’s.” That declaration does not mean our participation is unnecessary, nor does it promise that discipleship will protect us from every difficulty. David still walked into the valley, selected the stones, prepared his sling, and confronted the enemy. What he refused to do was accept the assumption that the outcome depended entirely upon his own size, strength, resources, or experience.

David understood that he was participating in a battle whose final authority belonged to God.

That same truth can transform the way we approach our spiritual battles today. We do not have to pretend that our giants are small. We do not have to deny the pain, complexity, or danger of what stands before us. Faith does not require us to minimize reality; it teaches us to see reality within the greater reality of God’s power, covenant faithfulness, and redemptive purposes.

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This Crucified Life: What I No Longer Miss

What is the purpose of this message today? Why focus on what I no longer miss? Because today’s message is about what dies and what rises within each one of us. Luke 9 is the clearest, the sharpest, and the most recovery aligned call Jesus ever gives. It is a call to deny self. A call for us to take up our cross daily. A call to follow after Him. And it is one where we are asked to count the cost because it requires that we lose our life in order to save it. It is where we come to the end of ourselves, attempting to gain the appeasement of those around us, to gain what the world may offer us, yet lose our very soul in the process. It speaks directly to the “things I no longer miss” in my own addiction, codependency, chasing the girlies, and pretending to be someone I never was.

Welcome back, fellow travelers. If you haven’t watched the recent devotional in our Set of the Sail series— “The Lord Giveth Knowledge: The Spiritual Awakening of Christian Recovery”—I encourage you to do that. In that message, we talked about walking the crucified life… not coping, not managing, not surviving… but dying to self so that Christ may live fully in us. Having a real genuine spiritual awakening to the things of God.

Today, we’re going deeper. Because if we’re honest, many of us have spent years trying to “manage” life on life’s terms. But Sacred Sobriety is not about management. It’s about transformation. It’s about stepping boldly into the victory Christ already secured.

You and I have twenty‑four hours today. And I want to take a few of those minutes to speak directly to the wounds, addictions, anxieties, fears, and faith crises that have shaped us.

Because there are things I no longer miss. And I want to show you why.

Anchor Verse — Luke 9:23–26: “If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me. For those who want to save their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will save it.

This is the heartbeat of recovery. This is the heartbeat of discipleship. This is the heartbeat of Sacred Sobriety.

Jesus is not calling us to cope. He is calling us to die— to ego, to self‑will, to the old patterns, to the old wounds, to the old survival strategies. And in that death… He calls us to live. To live a blessed and abundant life. To live with peace of mind and joy in our hearts. Yet to do this – he invites us in because we are heavy laden, weary travelers and are in much need of rest (Matthew 11:28-29).

Facing Both Ways: When Christian Recovery Loses Its Direction and the Soul Begins to Drift

I have found moments in my own recovery journey, faith, and life when I realized I have been living divided. One part of my heart longs for God, healing, peace, and truth. Yet, another part wanted to reach back toward toxic patterns, unhealthy attachments, worldly validation, and spiritual compromise. And I found that I am not alone – many people today are exhausted, not because they do not love Christ, because they are attempting to face two different directions at once. This is the spiritual condition A.W. Tozer exposed quite powerfully within Chapter Seven of his work The Set of the Sail. The chapter is titled, Facing Both Ways. Tozer observed a Christianity that spoke Christian lingo while slowly adopting worldly values. He warned of a divided orientation – a soul that attempted to follow God while remaining emotionally attached to the systems that once kept the person in bondage.

For many of us fellow travelers, walking through recovery from addiction, codependency, family dysfunction, spiritual abuse, or faith crisis, this tension feels painfully familiar. Each of us desires freedom, yet sometimes we mourn the chains left behind. We seek Christ, yet fear surrendering our life and will over to His care. We pray for healing yet continue to entertain voices that have wounded us.

However, the Gospel never calls us to a divided direction. Christ invites us into His rest with a wholehearted orientation.

Anchor Verse – Psalm 16:8 (NRSVUE): “I have set the Lord before me; because he is at my right hand, I shall not be moved.”

A divided heart creates instability. Scripture teaches that “the double-minded are unstable in every way” (James 1:8, NRSVUE). Recovery becomes quite fragile when our own direction is unclear. Faith becomes shallow when we attempt to seek both the approval of God and the acceptance of unhealthy systems that tend to distract and lead us away from Him.

Today, let’s take a moment to reflect on how Tozer diagnosed modern Christianity with what he called dual orientation. Theology that faces God, yet desires continue facing the world. The result is spiritual confusion, emotional exhaustion, compromised conviction, and diluted discipleship.

Let’s face it: many Christians on a path of recovery understand this quite deeply and personally. Addiction itself is often rooted in divided affection – wanting peace while feeding into the chaos. Desiring intimacy while hiding in the darkness of dysfunction. Wanting God yet remaining emotionally tethered to destructive patterns.

Christ does not merely improve our attitude and behavior – He reorients the entire person. Are you ready for a spiritual reorientation of the heart, mind, and spirit today?

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The Divine Architecture of Gender: An LDS Analysis of the “Godhead Creation Dilemma” and Biblical Exegesis

In his podcast (Episode 87), “The LDS Godhead Creation Dilemma,” critic Bill Young attempts to force a theological checkmate onto Latter-day Saints. He argues that because a Heavenly Mother is not explicitly canonized in LDS standard works, the entire Latter-day Saint cosmology and understanding of the Godhead collapses. His argument is rhetorically forceful, emotionally charged, and heavily dependent on satire and selective framing.

However, the central irony of his critique is profound: Bill repeatedly attacks Latter-day Saints for deriving doctrine through theological inference while simultaneously defending the mainstream doctrine of the Trinity. This defense is particularly troubling given that the Trinity is a doctrine that likewise emerges through synthesis, philosophical formulation, and post-biblical doctrinal development rather than from a singular, explicit biblical statement. This selective application of inference highlights a critical inconsistency in his argument and reveals a double standard that is structurally unsustainable.

To unpack why this critique fails historically, linguistically, and methodologically, we must move past an intuitive, “feels-right” approach to scripture and dive into the rigorous reality of biblical exegesis. Historical context plays a crucial role in understanding both Latter-day Saint doctrines and mainstream Christian beliefs. The development of the Trinity, for instance, did not occur in a vacuum; it was the result of centuries of theological discourse and debate among early church leaders.

In contrast, the concept of a Heavenly Mother may not be as explicitly outlined in LDS scripture, but the principle of a divine feminine presence is woven throughout the fabric of Latter-day Saint theology. By ignoring this contextual nuance and dismissing the significant theological development within Latter-day Saint thought, Bill’s critique falls flat.

Furthermore, linguistically, the words we choose to frame our understanding of God significantly influence how doctrines are perceived and articulated. In Latter-day Saint belief, the concept of a Mother in Heaven is not merely an optional addendum but a vital part of understanding the divine family structure. By failing to engage with this linguistic complexity, Bill oversimplifies a rich and profound belief system.

Methodologically, the task of drawing theological conclusions must be approached with care. Relying solely on explicit biblical texts can lead to an incomplete understanding of the intricate and often subtle ways that spiritual truths manifest. Both the Latter-day Saint perspective and the traditional Christian views on the Godhead are informed by interpretation, historical development, and communal understanding.

In concluding this analysis, it is essential to recognize that engaging with theological beliefs requires depth, patience, and a willingness to explore the intricacies that shape those beliefs. By fostering a spirit of inquiry and open dialogue, rather than reductive criticisms, we can appreciate the multifaceted nature of faith that transcends oversimplified arguments.

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Ministering — “That Ye Love One Another; as I Have Loved You”

Ministering is truly loving and caring for others as the Savior would. It is a way of being; it is the way of our Savior, Jesus Christ.

How do we view ministering? When we approach this sacred assignment, are we simply checking off a task on our to-do list? Do we juggle it in our already packed schedules, overwhelmed and overloaded, perhaps even a bit overstimulated? Sister Kristin M. Yee encourages us to reframe our understanding of ministering—an understanding that emphasizes fulfilling our covenants. She beautifully illustrates that ministering is not just an obligation to fulfill, but a profound opportunity to invite the Spirit into our lives and create a sacred space. It’s about edifying, encouraging, and healing those who might have lost hope or are struggling to exercise their faith.

Sister Yee shares a touching story about her father—a man who didn’t need elaborate lectures, programs, or perfectly crafted plans to feel the warmth of fellowship. All it took were two faithful servants of God who consistently showed up, embodying the love, light, and truth of our Heavenly Father. Week after week, year after year, they stood by him, guiding him to the temple. There were no grand gestures, no fanfare—just simple, covenant love in action. It was through this quiet, consistent effort that her father began to experience God’s presence and, in turn, rediscovered the love of the Father. He found within himself the capacity to love again, leading him to a deeper sense of purpose and meaning in life.

This is the essence of ministering that transforms individuals, strengthens families, rescues souls, and rewrites personal stories for the better.

Let’s take a moment to reflect: Have you ever felt unsure, unqualified, or awkward about ministering? While pondering this, consider another question: Have you ever felt uncertain, unqualified, or awkward about being ministered to? This message resonates deeply with me, and I hope it speaks to you as well.

Sister Yee addresses each of us directly, acknowledging that many of us may feel this way at times. She testifies that the Savior steps in to fill those gaps in our lives. He magnifies our smallest efforts, turning our simple presence into sacred moments of healing, restoration, and forgiveness. Through this, He invites the Spirit to embrace us, allowing us to feel His immense love as we share it with others.

Remember, this journey is not about achieving perfection; it’s about embracing genuine and faithful discipleship. It’s about stewardship—showing up with Christ and allowing Him to work through us, doing what only He can do.

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Becoming Jesus’ Apprentice: A Guide to True Discipleship

Practicing the Way: Becoming an Apprentice of Jesus

Struggling with faith, battling addiction, or seeking healing from past wounds and toxic relationships can leave us feeling broken and uncertain. Yet, Jesus calls each of us to a radical way of living—a life of transformation and purpose through apprenticeship to Him. This call goes beyond superficial labels or rituals and invites us to be true disciples, followers of “The Way.”

In this article, inspired by the teachings of Allen Creek Community Church’s sermon on January 5, 2025, and the book Practicing the Way by John Mark Comer, we’ll explore what it means to become an apprentice of Jesus. Together, we’ll delve into biblical insights, practical applications, and spiritual encouragement designed especially for those navigating recovery, healing, and spiritual growth.

What Does It Mean to Be a Christian?

The term “Christian” is used sparingly in the Bible. In fact, the followers of Jesus did not originally call themselves Christians. The word appears only three times:

  • Acts 11:26 – First used in Antioch as a term of derision.
  • Acts 26:28 – Used by King Agrippa.
  • 1 Peter 4:16 – Peter reclaims the term, encouraging believers to embrace it even when facing persecution.

Instead, early believers were often called “Followers of the Way” (Acts 9:2, Acts 19:9, Acts 24:14) or “disciples”—a term used 269 times in the New Testament. This distinction matters because modern Christianity often emphasizes belief in theological doctrines over active discipleship.

The question we must ask ourselves is this: Are we simply identifying as Christians, or are we truly following Jesus—walking in His steps as apprentices?

Faith Beyond Belief: Casting Ourselves on Christ

Biblical faith is not merely assenting to truths about Jesus; it is a whole-person commitment. As James 2:19 reminds us, “Even the demons believe… and shudder.” True faith involves:

  1. Turning to Christ with Our Whole Selves – A full surrender of our heart, mind, and will.
  2. Repentance – A genuine change of heart and direction, turning from sin to God (2 Corinthians 7:10).
  3. Following Jesus – Aligning our lives with His teachings and example (Matthew 4:19; Mark 1:17).

An analogy often used is that of a zip line: Trusting in Jesus is like stepping off the platform and relying fully on Him to carry us safely to the other side. It is an act of surrender, not merely intellectual agreement.

When Following Jesus Gets Hard

Even during Jesus’ earthly ministry, some who initially followed Him turned away. In Mark 10, the rich young ruler sought eternal life but walked away sorrowful when Jesus challenged his attachment to wealth (Mark 10:20-22). His story reveals key truths about discipleship:

  1. Jesus Calls Us to Let Go of Our Idols – Whether it’s wealth, relationships, or addictions, we cannot follow Jesus while clinging to what holds us back.
  2. Following Jesus Requires Repentance – Turning from sin and surrendering to Christ as Lord.
  3. Jesus’ Love is Unconditional – He “looked at him and loved him,” even as the man chose to walk away.

What idols are holding you back from fully following Jesus? Is it fear, shame, or the pain of past hurts? Jesus calls us to lay these burdens down and find rest in Him (Matthew 11:28-30).

The Cost and Joy of Discipleship

Jesus said, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me” (Luke 9:23). This call is not easy, but it leads to life:

  • Denying Ourselves – Letting go of self-centered desires and surrendering to God’s will.
  • Taking Up Our Cross – Facing suffering and challenges with faith, knowing that Jesus bore the ultimate burden for our sake.
  • Following Jesus – Living out His teachings in daily life.

Though the path of discipleship is costly, it brings profound joy. Hebrews 12:2 reminds us that Jesus endured the cross “for the joy set before Him.” In the same way, we find joy and purpose when we die to our old selves and live fully for Christ.

Healing Through Apprenticeship to Jesus

For those in recovery from addiction or healing from past wounds, the journey of following Jesus offers hope and transformation:

  1. Breaking Chains of Addiction – Jesus’ truth sets us free (John 8:32). By adopting His teachings and surrendering to His power, we find freedom from destructive habits.
  2. Restoring Relationships – As we follow Jesus, we learn to love others selflessly, forgive past hurts, and build healthy connections (Ephesians 4:32).
  3. Overcoming Shame – Jesus bore our shame on the cross (Hebrews 12:2), inviting us to walk in the freedom of His grace.
  4. Finding Identity in Christ – As apprentices of Jesus, we are no longer defined by our past or struggles but by our relationship with Him (2 Corinthians 5:17).

Practical Steps to Live as an Apprentice of Jesus

  1. Daily Surrender – Begin each day by praying, “Jesus, I surrender my will to You. Teach me to follow Your way.”
  2. Study His Word – Regularly read and meditate on Scripture, focusing on the teachings of Jesus.
  3. Practice Spiritual Disciplines – Develop habits like prayer, fasting, and serving others to grow closer to God.
  4. Engage in Community – Surround yourself with fellow believers who encourage and challenge you in your faith.
  5. Seek Healing – Allow God to heal your wounds through counseling, support groups, and His transformative love.

Call to Action

Are you ready to take the next step in your journey with Jesus? Share your thoughts, struggles, and victories in the comments below. Let’s grow together as a community of apprentices, encouraging and supporting one another in faith and recovery.

If this article has blessed you, please:

  • Like and Share with friends who may be seeking hope and healing.
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Remember, Jesus invites you to come as you are and find rest for your soul. Answer His call today, and step into the life of joy and purpose He has prepared for you. Let’s walk this journey together as apprentices of the Way.

Becoming Jesus’ Apprentice: A Guide to True Discipleship

Practicing the Way: Becoming an Apprentice of Jesus

Struggling with faith, battling addiction, or seeking healing from past wounds and toxic relationships can leave us feeling broken and uncertain. Yet, Jesus calls each of us to a radical way of living—a life of transformation and purpose through apprenticeship to Him. This call goes beyond superficial labels or rituals and invites us to be true disciples, followers of “The Way.”

In this article, inspired by the teachings of Allen Creek Community Church’s sermon on January 5, 2025, and the book Practicing the Way by John Mark Comer, we’ll explore what it means to become an apprentice of Jesus. Together, we’ll delve into biblical insights, practical applications, and spiritual encouragement designed especially for those navigating recovery, healing, and spiritual growth.

What Does It Mean to Be a Christian?

The term “Christian” is used sparingly in the Bible. In fact, the followers of Jesus did not originally call themselves Christians. The word appears only three times:

  • Acts 11:26 – First used in Antioch as a term of derision.
  • Acts 26:28 – Used by King Agrippa.
  • 1 Peter 4:16 – Peter reclaims the term, encouraging believers to embrace it even when facing persecution.

Instead, early believers were often called “Followers of the Way” (Acts 9:2, Acts 19:9, Acts 24:14) or “disciples”—a term used 269 times in the New Testament. This distinction matters because modern Christianity often emphasizes belief in theological doctrines over active discipleship.

The question we must ask ourselves is this: Are we simply identifying as Christians, or are we truly following Jesus—walking in His steps as apprentices?

Faith Beyond Belief: Casting Ourselves on Christ

Biblical faith is not merely assenting to truths about Jesus; it is a whole-person commitment. As James 2:19 reminds us, “Even the demons believe… and shudder.” True faith involves:

  1. Turning to Christ with Our Whole Selves – A full surrender of our heart, mind, and will.
  2. Repentance – A genuine change of heart and direction, turning from sin to God (2 Corinthians 7:10).
  3. Following Jesus – Aligning our lives with His teachings and example (Matthew 4:19; Mark 1:17).

An analogy often used is that of a zip line: Trusting in Jesus is like stepping off the platform and relying fully on Him to carry us safely to the other side. It is an act of surrender, not merely intellectual agreement.

When Following Jesus Gets Hard

Even during Jesus’ earthly ministry, some who initially followed Him turned away. In Mark 10, the rich young ruler sought eternal life but walked away sorrowful when Jesus challenged his attachment to wealth (Mark 10:20-22). His story reveals key truths about discipleship:

  1. Jesus Calls Us to Let Go of Our Idols – Whether it’s wealth, relationships, or addictions, we cannot follow Jesus while clinging to what holds us back.
  2. Following Jesus Requires Repentance – Turning from sin and surrendering to Christ as Lord.
  3. Jesus’ Love is Unconditional – He “looked at him and loved him,” even as the man chose to walk away.

What idols are holding you back from fully following Jesus? Is it fear, shame, or the pain of past hurts? Jesus calls us to lay these burdens down and find rest in Him (Matthew 11:28-30).

The Cost and Joy of Discipleship

Jesus said, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me” (Luke 9:23). This call is not easy, but it leads to life:

  • Denying Ourselves – Letting go of self-centered desires and surrendering to God’s will.
  • Taking Up Our Cross – Facing suffering and challenges with faith, knowing that Jesus bore the ultimate burden for our sake.
  • Following Jesus – Living out His teachings in daily life.

Though the path of discipleship is costly, it brings profound joy. Hebrews 12:2 reminds us that Jesus endured the cross “for the joy set before Him.” In the same way, we find joy and purpose when we die to our old selves and live fully for Christ.

Healing Through Apprenticeship to Jesus

For those in recovery from addiction or healing from past wounds, the journey of following Jesus offers hope and transformation:

  1. Breaking Chains of Addiction – Jesus’ truth sets us free (John 8:32). By adopting His teachings and surrendering to His power, we find freedom from destructive habits.
  2. Restoring Relationships – As we follow Jesus, we learn to love others selflessly, forgive past hurts, and build healthy connections (Ephesians 4:32).
  3. Overcoming Shame – Jesus bore our shame on the cross (Hebrews 12:2), inviting us to walk in the freedom of His grace.
  4. Finding Identity in Christ – As apprentices of Jesus, we are no longer defined by our past or struggles but by our relationship with Him (2 Corinthians 5:17).

Practical Steps to Live as an Apprentice of Jesus

  1. Daily Surrender – Begin each day by praying, “Jesus, I surrender my will to You. Teach me to follow Your way.”
  2. Study His Word – Regularly read and meditate on Scripture, focusing on the teachings of Jesus.
  3. Practice Spiritual Disciplines – Develop habits like prayer, fasting, and serving others to grow closer to God.
  4. Engage in Community – Surround yourself with fellow believers who encourage and challenge you in your faith.
  5. Seek Healing – Allow God to heal your wounds through counseling, support groups, and His transformative love.

Call to Action

Are you ready to take the next step in your journey with Jesus? Share your thoughts, struggles, and victories in the comments below. Let’s grow together as a community of apprentices, encouraging and supporting one another in faith and recovery.

If this article has blessed you, please:

  • Like and Share with friends who may be seeking hope and healing.
  • Subscribe to receive more faith-based insights and encouragement.
  • Consider Making a Donation to support this ministry and help us reach more people with the message of Christ’s transforming love.

Remember, Jesus invites you to come as you are and find rest for your soul. Answer His call today, and step into the life of joy and purpose He has prepared for you. Let’s walk this journey together as apprentices of the Way.

Returning to True Discipleship: Rekindling Godly Sorrow, Genuine Repentance, and Revival

In a world marked by spiritual confusion and a growing disconnect from the church, the body of Christ faces a pivotal moment. Many believers, especially those categorized as the “dones” — individuals disillusioned with institutional church but not with Christ — yearn for a return to authentic Christian discipleship. This longing echoes the early church’s transformative power seen in the Book of Acts. How can we, as followers of Christ, reestablish genuine discipleship and minister effectively to the “dones”?

The answer lies in embracing godly sorrow, contrition of spirit, genuine repentance, and a revival rooted in Biblical truth. By adopting these principles, we can lead people to Christ-centered lives, foster deep connections with local churches, and reignite the fire of spiritual growth.

The Biblical Foundation of True Discipleship

Authentic discipleship requires more than weekly sermons or feel-good worship services. It demands a radical commitment to follow Christ, as demonstrated in Luke 9:23: “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.” Discipleship is a daily journey of surrender and transformation.

Key passages underscore the essence of true discipleship:

  • 2 Corinthians 7:10: “For godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation without regret, whereas worldly grief produces death.” True repentance stems from godly sorrow, an awareness of sin’s weight, and a heartfelt desire to turn back to God.
  • Psalm 51:17: “The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise.” God seeks humility and sincerity in those who approach Him.
  • Acts 2:37-38: After Peter’s Pentecost sermon, the crowd was “pricked in their hearts” and asked what they should do. Peter’s response was clear: “Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.” This marks the beginning of their discipleship journey.

Why the Church Must Change

The modern church often struggles to retain its relevance in a fast-changing world. As sociologist Josh Packard, Ph.D., highlights in his book Church Refugees, many “dones” feel disenchanted by sermons that fail to address real-life challenges and a lack of meaningful engagement. These individuals desire genuine connection and transformational experiences, not mere entertainment or institutional routines.

Barna Research confirms this trend, noting that while church attendance declines, the spiritual hunger among the “de-churched” remains. They crave authenticity and long to see the church emulate Christ’s ministry.

Jesus’ ministry was relational and action-oriented. He walked among the people, healed the sick, and taught with authority. Modern pastors, often confined to their studies and focused on theological intricacies, risk losing touch with their congregations’ real needs. The time has come to move beyond lectures and programs to embrace relational discipleship.

Strategies for Ministering to the “Dones”

1. Cultivate Godly Sorrow and Genuine Repentance

Godly sorrow leads to transformation. To minister effectively, we must:

  • Preach with conviction: Messages should challenge listeners to reflect on their sin and turn to God. Avoid sugar-coating the Gospel.
  • Share personal testimonies: Vulnerability fosters trust and demonstrates the power of repentance and restoration.
  • Create spaces for confession and prayer: Encourage honest conversations about struggles and victories in faith.

2. Foster a Culture of Contrition and Brokenness

A contrite heart invites God’s presence. As Isaiah 66:2b states, “This is the one I esteem: he who is humble and contrite in spirit, and trembles at my word.” To foster this spirit:

  • Focus on small groups: Intimate gatherings promote accountability and spiritual growth.
  • Encourage reflective worship: Incorporate moments of silence, prayer, and heartfelt worship to help believers connect deeply with God.
  • Teach humility: Highlight the value of serving others and recognizing our dependence on God.

3. Reignite the Fire of Revival

True revival starts in the hearts of individuals. To spark revival:

  • Emphasize prayer and fasting: Revival begins when God’s people humble themselves and seek His face (2 Chronicles 7:14).
  • Host revival-focused events: Organize prayer nights, worship gatherings, and community outreach efforts.
  • Preach the Gospel boldly: Prioritize the unchanging message of Christ’s death and resurrection.

4. Minister Where the “Dones” Are

To reach the “dones,” we must meet them where they are:

  • Leverage digital platforms: Create online content that answers tough spiritual questions and provides Bible-based encouragement. Share testimonies, sermons, and devotional materials.
  • Engage in real-life conversations: Build relationships through one-on-one interactions, coffee meetups, or community events.
  • Encourage Bible study: Provide resources and tools to help individuals engage with Scripture on their own.

5. Encourage Connection with Local Churches

Despite their disillusionment, the “dones” need the fellowship of believers. Encourage them to:

  • Visit diverse congregations: Help them find a church that values authenticity and relational ministry.
  • Get involved: Encourage active participation in ministries and service opportunities.
  • Pray for discernment: Seek God’s guidance in finding a church home.

6. Prioritize Discipleship

True discipleship equips believers to grow in faith and lead others to Christ. Practical steps include:

  • Develop mentoring relationships: Pair mature Christians with newer believers for guidance and support.
  • Offer discipleship courses: Provide structured programs focused on Bible study, prayer, and spiritual growth.
  • Model Christ’s example: Live out your faith authentically and encourage others to do the same.

Spiritual Applications

As we strive to return to authentic discipleship, consider these applications:

  1. Examine Your Heart: Are you walking in godly sorrow and genuine repentance? Ask God to reveal areas where you need transformation.
  2. Invest in Relationships: Build meaningful connections with others, offering support and encouragement.
  3. Commit to Prayer and Study: Spend time in God’s Word and prayer daily, seeking His guidance and wisdom.
  4. Serve Others: Look for opportunities to serve within your church and community, following Christ’s example.

Reflective Questions

  1. How does your life reflect true discipleship?
  2. Are you willing to embrace godly sorrow and repentance in your walk with Christ?
  3. How can you minister to the “dones” in your community?
  4. What steps can you take to foster revival in your heart and church?
  5. How can you encourage others to deepen their relationship with Christ?

Call to Action

The time to act is now. As followers of Christ, we are called to minister as He did, prioritizing relationships, discipleship, and transformation. Here’s how you can get involved:

  • Pray for Revival: Ask God to stir hearts and bring renewal to His church.
  • Reach Out to the “Dones”: Offer a listening ear, share your faith, and invite them to explore Scripture.
  • Share the Gospel: Use your platforms to proclaim the Good News boldly.
  • Support Ministry Efforts: Like, subscribe, and share content that encourages others in their faith. Consider donating to ministries that align with Biblical values.
  • Join the Conversation: Comment below with your thoughts, experiences, and questions about discipleship and revival.

Together, we can inspire a movement back to true Christian discipleship, transforming hearts and lives for the glory of God. Let’s follow Christ’s example, bringing hope, healing, and revival to a world in desperate need of His love.

Returning to True Discipleship: Rekindling Godly Sorrow, Genuine Repentance, and Revival

In a world marked by spiritual confusion and a growing disconnect from the church, the body of Christ faces a pivotal moment. Many believers, especially those categorized as the “dones” — individuals disillusioned with institutional church but not with Christ — yearn for a return to authentic Christian discipleship. This longing echoes the early church’s transformative power seen in the Book of Acts. How can we, as followers of Christ, reestablish genuine discipleship and minister effectively to the “dones”?

The answer lies in embracing godly sorrow, contrition of spirit, genuine repentance, and a revival rooted in Biblical truth. By adopting these principles, we can lead people to Christ-centered lives, foster deep connections with local churches, and reignite the fire of spiritual growth.

The Biblical Foundation of True Discipleship

Authentic discipleship requires more than weekly sermons or feel-good worship services. It demands a radical commitment to follow Christ, as demonstrated in Luke 9:23: “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.” Discipleship is a daily journey of surrender and transformation.

Key passages underscore the essence of true discipleship:

  • 2 Corinthians 7:10: “For godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation without regret, whereas worldly grief produces death.” True repentance stems from godly sorrow, an awareness of sin’s weight, and a heartfelt desire to turn back to God.
  • Psalm 51:17: “The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise.” God seeks humility and sincerity in those who approach Him.
  • Acts 2:37-38: After Peter’s Pentecost sermon, the crowd was “pricked in their hearts” and asked what they should do. Peter’s response was clear: “Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.” This marks the beginning of their discipleship journey.

Why the Church Must Change

The modern church often struggles to retain its relevance in a fast-changing world. As sociologist Josh Packard, Ph.D., highlights in his book Church Refugees, many “dones” feel disenchanted by sermons that fail to address real-life challenges and a lack of meaningful engagement. These individuals desire genuine connection and transformational experiences, not mere entertainment or institutional routines.

Barna Research confirms this trend, noting that while church attendance declines, the spiritual hunger among the “de-churched” remains. They crave authenticity and long to see the church emulate Christ’s ministry.

Jesus’ ministry was relational and action-oriented. He walked among the people, healed the sick, and taught with authority. Modern pastors, often confined to their studies and focused on theological intricacies, risk losing touch with their congregations’ real needs. The time has come to move beyond lectures and programs to embrace relational discipleship.

Strategies for Ministering to the “Dones”

1. Cultivate Godly Sorrow and Genuine Repentance

Godly sorrow leads to transformation. To minister effectively, we must:

  • Preach with conviction: Messages should challenge listeners to reflect on their sin and turn to God. Avoid sugar-coating the Gospel.
  • Share personal testimonies: Vulnerability fosters trust and demonstrates the power of repentance and restoration.
  • Create spaces for confession and prayer: Encourage honest conversations about struggles and victories in faith.

2. Foster a Culture of Contrition and Brokenness

A contrite heart invites God’s presence. As Isaiah 66:2b states, “This is the one I esteem: he who is humble and contrite in spirit, and trembles at my word.” To foster this spirit:

  • Focus on small groups: Intimate gatherings promote accountability and spiritual growth.
  • Encourage reflective worship: Incorporate moments of silence, prayer, and heartfelt worship to help believers connect deeply with God.
  • Teach humility: Highlight the value of serving others and recognizing our dependence on God.

3. Reignite the Fire of Revival

True revival starts in the hearts of individuals. To spark revival:

  • Emphasize prayer and fasting: Revival begins when God’s people humble themselves and seek His face (2 Chronicles 7:14).
  • Host revival-focused events: Organize prayer nights, worship gatherings, and community outreach efforts.
  • Preach the Gospel boldly: Prioritize the unchanging message of Christ’s death and resurrection.

4. Minister Where the “Dones” Are

To reach the “dones,” we must meet them where they are:

  • Leverage digital platforms: Create online content that answers tough spiritual questions and provides Bible-based encouragement. Share testimonies, sermons, and devotional materials.
  • Engage in real-life conversations: Build relationships through one-on-one interactions, coffee meetups, or community events.
  • Encourage Bible study: Provide resources and tools to help individuals engage with Scripture on their own.

5. Encourage Connection with Local Churches

Despite their disillusionment, the “dones” need the fellowship of believers. Encourage them to:

  • Visit diverse congregations: Help them find a church that values authenticity and relational ministry.
  • Get involved: Encourage active participation in ministries and service opportunities.
  • Pray for discernment: Seek God’s guidance in finding a church home.

6. Prioritize Discipleship

True discipleship equips believers to grow in faith and lead others to Christ. Practical steps include:

  • Develop mentoring relationships: Pair mature Christians with newer believers for guidance and support.
  • Offer discipleship courses: Provide structured programs focused on Bible study, prayer, and spiritual growth.
  • Model Christ’s example: Live out your faith authentically and encourage others to do the same.

Spiritual Applications

As we strive to return to authentic discipleship, consider these applications:

  1. Examine Your Heart: Are you walking in godly sorrow and genuine repentance? Ask God to reveal areas where you need transformation.
  2. Invest in Relationships: Build meaningful connections with others, offering support and encouragement.
  3. Commit to Prayer and Study: Spend time in God’s Word and prayer daily, seeking His guidance and wisdom.
  4. Serve Others: Look for opportunities to serve within your church and community, following Christ’s example.

Reflective Questions

  1. How does your life reflect true discipleship?
  2. Are you willing to embrace godly sorrow and repentance in your walk with Christ?
  3. How can you minister to the “dones” in your community?
  4. What steps can you take to foster revival in your heart and church?
  5. How can you encourage others to deepen their relationship with Christ?

Call to Action

The time to act is now. As followers of Christ, we are called to minister as He did, prioritizing relationships, discipleship, and transformation. Here’s how you can get involved:

  • Pray for Revival: Ask God to stir hearts and bring renewal to His church.
  • Reach Out to the “Dones”: Offer a listening ear, share your faith, and invite them to explore Scripture.
  • Share the Gospel: Use your platforms to proclaim the Good News boldly.
  • Support Ministry Efforts: Like, subscribe, and share content that encourages others in their faith. Consider donating to ministries that align with Biblical values.
  • Join the Conversation: Comment below with your thoughts, experiences, and questions about discipleship and revival.

Together, we can inspire a movement back to true Christian discipleship, transforming hearts and lives for the glory of God. Let’s follow Christ’s example, bringing hope, healing, and revival to a world in desperate need of His love.