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Rehoboam’s Pride, Elijah’s Fire & the Voice You’re Missing | 1 Kings 12-13; 17–22 CFM

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Choose This Day: Finding Christ in the Divided Kingdoms of Our Lives

Quite frankly, I am grateful for the many people who have come into my life and spoken to me directly, compassionately, and with genuine understanding. They showed patience and grace without sitting in judgment over me. They met me in difficult and messy moments, listened to what I was carrying, and helped me confront unhealthy attitudes and behaviors without condemning me.

Yet, if I am completely honest, I have also carried resentment, bitterness, self-hatred, and anger toward people whom I believed had betrayed, ignored, or abandoned me.

Every one of us is shaped—lifted, wounded, strengthened, or misled—by the voices we choose to follow.

Families may rise or fall because of those voices. Communities may flourish or fracture because of them. Our faith may deepen or drift depending on whose counsel we trust and whose influence we permit to guide our decisions.

Much of the pain we carry may be traced to someone who used influence selfishly—or to someone who possessed the ability to help but refused to use it.

The opposite is also true.

Some of the deepest healing we experience comes through Christlike leaders, mentors, friends, and disciples who choose to show up, serve, and sacrifice. They meet us in places where others might pass by. They take time to understand, comfort, encourage, and help us move forward without excusing destructive behavior or enabling us to remain stuck.

That tension between selfish influence and Christlike service stands at the heart of this week’s Come, Follow Me study for June 29–July 5: “If the Lord Be God, Follow Him,” covering 1 Kings 12–13 and 17–22.

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The Plan Never Changed – He Sees Us and Our Struggles

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There was a moment in my youth where I learned a lesson I didn’t understand until much later. It happened during a Boy Scout outing one summer. We were out on the bay near my hometown, and it was the first time I ever learned how to paddle a canoe.

Okay, so what — you got to go out on the water, learn to paddle, in a canoe. What’s the big deal?

Here’s the lesson.

On the way back to shore, the tide was going out. We were paddling against it. Not upstream on a river — against the tide of the bay. And the harder we paddled, the slower we moved. Every inch forward took every ounce of strength we had.

Life feels like that sometimes. Recovery feels like that often. You’re straining at the oars, wondering if you’re even moving, wondering when you’ll reach the destination, wondering when the struggle will ease.

I didn’t think about that moment again until I came across a reel of a guy with a sideways cap, tattoos, and piercings teaching on Mark 6 — the same chapter where Jesus feeds the 5,000, right after He receives word of John the Baptist’s death, and right after He commissions the Twelve to preach the Gospel.

Anchor Verse — Mark 6:47–48 (NRSVUE): “When evening came, the boat was out on the sea, and he was alone on the land. When he saw that they were straining at the oars against an adverse wind, he came toward them early in the morning, walking on the sea. He intended to pass them by.”

And that’s where everything shifted. Pastor Kelly K said something that stopped me cold: “If Jesus saw them, He sees you too.” The disciples were in serious trouble — rowing hard, struggling against the wind and waves. And Jesus saw them long before He ever stepped onto the water. Just like He sees you. Then came the line that most of us have never paid attention to: “He intended to go past them.” Why would Jesus walk toward them… but not stop?

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Set the Sail of Recovery and Sobriety: “If Any Would Follow…”

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I do not recall the specific moment in my own recovery journey when Jesus placed a crossroad before. For one, I have had multiple crossroads placed before. And I am sure many of you have had those same crossroads placed in your own life and path. These crossroads were not placed with thunder, not spectacle, because they were often placed with a quiet, piercing invitation. At times, and for me, came by way of conviction that brought me to the knees of humility because of an entitled selfish attitude. Other times came in moments of comfort and spiritual direction when someone took the time to obey without delay the promptings of the Holy Spirit. And still other moments where it is the quiet witness of confirmation, and then further confirmed by another’s message and teaching.

That tiny word if holds the weight of your destiny as well as my own destiny. it is the hinge between us surviving and thriving, between bondage and freedom, between the life we’ve known and the life Christ longs to give us – you know, that abundant life where there are peace and joy in Him? An abundant life where we come to rest in Him.

Today, we are stepping right into this profound, simple, and quiet invitation with courage, clarity, and a sound mindset that is honest. Stepping into understanding how the cross becomes transformative in our path, in our lives, and in our relationships.

Anchor Verse — Matthew 16:23–26 (cf. Luke 9:23–26, NRSVUE): “Then Jesus told his disciples, “If any wish to come after me, let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. For those who want to save their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find it. For what will it profit them if they gain the whole world but forfeit their life? Or what will they give in return for their life?“

Welcome back, fellow travelers, to Sacred Sobriety: A Path for the Soul. We are continuing our series Set the Sail for Recovery and Sobriety. Today we’re walking with Jesus into one of the most demanding—and liberating—teachings He ever gave. Matthew 16:23–26 and Luke 9:23–26 confront us with the truth that discipleship is not an accessory to life; it is the surrender of life. And yet, in that surrender, we discover the abundant life we’ve been aching for. As Tozer writes in Salvation Walks the Earth, “Every man holds his future in his hand… destiny waits on the nod of his head.” Today, we nod toward Christ.

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From Rockpiles to Cathedrals

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I never realized how many various rock-piles I’ve carried with me. And I also realized I was not alone because every one of us carries rock-piles – a place in our lives that feels heavy, unfinished, unlovely, or overwhelming. In the throes of our addiction, codependency, fear, shame – a relationship may feel stuck. A past feels immovable. A future feels uncertain.

However, scripture insists that God sees more in us than the rubble we carry. He sees the cathedral hidden inside the stones.

Anchor verse – Isaiah 61:3: “…to give them a garland instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, the mantle of praise instead of faint spirit. They will be called oaks of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, to display his glory.”

God does not merely remove the ashes – He transforms them. He does not simply clear the rubble – He builds something enduring, beautiful, and strong.

Welcome back fellow travelers. As we continue our journey through sacred sobriety, we pause today to consider the quiet miracle of imagination – holy imagination. The ability to see what God sees. The courage to believe that the rubble of our lives is not the end of our story.

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Apostasy to Restoration: Lesson 7: Religion in the Roman Empire

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When T. Edgar Lyon first penned Lesson 7 of Apostasy to Restoration in 1960, he invited Latter-day Saints to step into a world where religion was not just a private conviction but a fundamental component of the machinery of empire. This bold assertion set the stage for a deeper exploration of the intricate interplay between faith, culture, and politics. Sixty years later, the landscape of scholarship has transformed dramatically, yet Lyon’s central insight remains strikingly relevant: to truly understand the need for a Restoration, we must first immerse ourselves in the complex milieu that shaped the early Christian Church.

This updated lesson builds upon Lyon’s foundational work, integrating modern archaeological discoveries, peer-reviewed historical research, and contemporary Latter-day Saint scholarship to form a more nuanced understanding of the context in which early Christianity emerged. What emerges from this scholarly synthesis is a clearer, richer, and more compelling picture of the Roman religious world—a world that was teeming with a pantheon of gods, replete with elaborate rituals, and governed by a political theology that made the act of Christian discipleship both radical and perilous.

In a society where loyalty to the state was intricately tied to acts of sacrifice and devotion, where citizens adeptly navigated multiple cults without a hint of contradiction, and where the pursuit of salvation was often sought through clandestine mystery rites and the favor of emperors, the Christian proclamation of “one Lord, one faith, one baptism” represented a profound challenge to the status quo—it was nothing less than a revolutionary stance. This declaration was, in essence, a radical reformation of the religious landscape, directly opposing the established norms that dictated the relationship between the individual, the divine, and the state.

Understanding that world is essential for grasping why the early Church fractured amidst various pressures and why a Restoration was not merely desirable but indeed inevitable. The tensions between emerging Christian beliefs and the entrenched systems of power were not just obstacles to be overcome; they underscored the urgent need for a return to core principles that could unify and reinvigorate the faith community. Lyon’s insights encourage us to reflect on our own circumstances in today’s religious environment, prompting critical questions about the nature of faith, the role of community, and the ongoing quest for spiritual authenticity in an increasingly complex world. As we navigate the remnants of an ancient tapestry interwoven with faith and politics, we find ourselves inspired to reconsider the implications of our shared history and the enduring quest for a true Restoration.

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We Must Test the Spirits of Recovery and Sobriety

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When recovery meets revelation, discernment becomes a moment of thriving in sobriety. We test substances for purity — why not spirits? The same vigilance that guards sobriety must guard faith. The relapse of the soul begins when we stop testing what we trust.

We find ourselves in a time when the mantra of “to thine own self be true” echoes throughout recovery circles, highlighting a growing trend that prioritizes subjective authenticity over absolute truths. This modern movement in recovery and sobriety often veers away from the profound spiritual truths embedded in Scripture and the Christian faith, diluting the very essence of what it means to be truly free.

In this era of counterfeit light, our culture is awash with spiritual noise—false prophets promising quick fixes, hollow promises of peace, and fleeting joys that inevitably fade. Many are turning to a version of recovery that embraces personal desire and subjective experience over divine guidance and genuine transformation.

Yet, Christ calls us to something deeper. He invites us not into cynicism or despair but into a clear and sober understanding of our identity in Him. True sobriety is not merely the absence of substances; it is the presence of a spirit anchored in truth. It is about discerning the lies that this world offers and embracing the flawless truth of God’s Word.

As we embark on this journey of genuine recovery, let us challenge the shallow waters of modern self-discovery and dive into the depths of spiritual sobriety. Surrendering to Christ means shedding the noise of empty promises and embracing the clarity that comes from knowing Him. True recovery is about reclaiming our lives from distraction, grounding ourselves in faith, and walking in the light of His truth.

In a world saturated with uncertainty, let us hold fast to the enduring hope found in Christ, where true transformation begins and lasting sobriety thrives. Are you ready to embrace a recovery journey that leads to true freedom?

Anchor Verse: “Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God; for many false prophets have gone out into the world.” – 1 John 4:1, NRSVUE

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General Conference Reflection: Come Home – The Savior’s Call to the Weary

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There have been those moments in my own life when silence felt louder than any noise – when distance from God doesn’t come through rebellion, it comes through weariness, disappointments, or quiet drifting. In those moments – I never thought of them as sacred hidden places. However, Elder Clark G. Gilbert’s message, Come Home, reminded me of how Christ rescued me. Elder Gilbert’s testimony is both disarming and deeply personal: Jesus Christ is not waiting to condemn you – He is actively calling you back. This is not an invitation for us to return to any religious belief – it is a return to a covenantal relationship where Christ desires to bring us face-to-face with our Heavenly Father. Through this process, we find healing, restoration, peace, and the joy that surpasses all understanding. It is an invitation for those wandering and lost today.

And here is the profound truth Elder Gilbert centers his message: Christ is not only our Redeemer – but He is also our Repairer. This distinction is of immense importance. Many of us hold to the idea that Jesus forgives us – however, how many of us truly believe and experience the reality of His power to restore us? Through personal stories, doctrinal clarity, and prophetic and apostolic witness, this message unfolds the spiritual reality and truth – no fracture; spiritual, emotional, or relational, is beyond the Savior’s power to amend through the gift and tender mercies of the infinite atonement.

Elder Gilbert’s message acknowledges the real barriers that prevent people from returning. It is these barriers I have found myself referring back to regarding my own devotional teachings and messages. The very same barriers I’ve struggled with over the years in returning back to the faith of the Restored Gospel. Feelings of not belonging, feelings of inadequacy, doubt, or even feeling trapped within cultural or religious expectations often obscure an intimate relationship with Jesus Christ. Elder Gilbert does not dismiss these struggles; instead, he speaks directly into them with compassion and clarity. His approach is refreshing as it resonates with the hearts of many who grapple with these complex emotions.

For me, the ultimate truth of this message is not about people leaving the faith – it is about the reason they are able to return. And for me, the Gospel of Jesus Christ is not a place for perfect people – it is a home for those returning. This home isn’t just a metaphorical return; it’s a genuine invitation to embrace love, understanding, and acceptance in the arms of a Savior who knows our struggles intimately.

Consider what the Savior taught regarding this profound and yet simplistic principle and truth:

“As Jesus was walking along, he saw a man called Matthew sitting at the tax-collection station, and he said to him, “Follow me.” And he got up and followed him. And as he sat at dinner in the house, many tax collectors and sinners came and were sitting with Jesus and his disciples. When the Pharisees saw this, they said to his disciples, “Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners?” But when he heard this, he said, “Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. Go and learn what this means, I desire mercy, not sacrifice. For I have not come to call the righteous but sinners.” (Matthew 9:10-13, NRSVUE).

In this scene, Jesus is having a meal with Matthew, a former tax collector, and a mixed crowd of people whom the religious leaders dubbed as tax collectors and sinners. When the Pharisees, the self-appointed guardians of what’s pure and pious, ask why he would spend time with such unclean folks, Jesus turns the whole conversation on its head. He doesn’t see himself as a judge but as a healer. He highlights that his mission isn’t about reaffirming those who think they’re just fine—essentially the self-righteous—but about reaching out to those who are honest enough to see their own brokenness. By quoting the prophet Hosea—“I desire mercy, not sacrifice”—he underscores that compassion trumps strict religious rules or pushing people away.

In addition to this powerful depiction, it’s crucial to reflect on the implications of this teaching in our daily lives. The moments we find ourselves in judgment rather than in service can detract from our mission as followers of Christ. When we look at the world with eyes that see brokenness, we are called to serve rather than criticize. Our posture should always be one of humility, recognizing our own need for mercy.

For me, Christ is not waiting to condemn; even the Apostle Paul writes: “Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” (Romans 8:1, NRSVUE). In my own life, those I have ministered to and sat in counsel with over the years have experienced this invitation to come back to Him. And the sad reality is: how often do we stand in the shoes of the Pharisees? How often are we prone to judge and criticize those who have left the LDS Faith, or even those who have left the Christian faith in general? While the Pharisees saw the dinner table as a place of judgment and an opportunity to avoid those who are deemed unworthy – sinners – Christ saw it as a place of ministry, healing, and deep connection.

One of the oft-repeated excuses that frustrates me is this: The Gospel is Perfect; the Church is True – the people are not. This bumper sticker cliché seems to slap a band-aid on people who have truly been disappointed, hurt, or pushed to the side as if they don’t matter or belong. This perspective can inadvertently perpetuate a culture of exclusion rather than inclusion, failing to recognize that the essence of the Gospel is about love and reconciliation.

In reality, Jesus’ message invites every individual, regardless of their past or present struggles, to experience the fullness of His grace and mercy—a message that should resonate deeply within the walls of every church and community devoted to His service.

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Our Heavenly Family: What the Gospel Teaches About Premortal Life and the Plan of Progression

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What if your identity didn’t start at birth—but before time as you know it?

Culture and society constantly attempt to define you by your past, your struggles, or your achievements, the restored gospel of Jesus Christ offers a radically different foundation: you are not an accident—you are a child of God.

This truth sits at the very heart of Latter-day Saint belief and shapes everything from purpose to destiny. If you’ve ever wondered, Who am I? Why am I here? Where am I going? —this doctrine answers all three with clarity, hope, and eternal perspective. Understanding this inherent identity offers comfort amidst life’s challenges and reassures you that your existence is meaningful and intentional.

The idea that your identity predates your mortal experience invites a profound reflection on the nature of your soul. It posits that you were known to God before the foundation of the world, reinforcing a sense of belonging that transcends earthly definitions. This foundational belief encourages individuals to look beyond transient labels and societal expectations, fostering a deeper connection with the divine.

In this post, we’ll walk through the doctrine of our Heavenly Family as taught in Chapter 2 of the Gospel Principles manual—unpacking it through scripture, thoughtful explanation, and real-life application. We will explore how viewing yourself as a beloved child of Heavenly Parents impacts your day-to-day life, the decisions you make, and the way you interact with others. By examining scripture, we’ll delve into key passages that illuminate your divine lineage and help you internalize the powerful message that you are part of a larger, eternal family.

Join us as we navigate these teachings together, uncovering the significance of your eternal identity and how it serves as a guiding light through trials and triumphs alike. Through this exploration, may you gain a renewed perspective on your divine worth and a deeper understanding of your eternal purpose.

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Ministering — “That Ye Love One Another; as I Have Loved You”

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Ministering is truly loving and caring for others as the Savior would. It is a way of being; it is the way of our Savior, Jesus Christ.

How do we view ministering? When we approach this sacred assignment, are we simply checking off a task on our to-do list? Do we juggle it in our already packed schedules, overwhelmed and overloaded, perhaps even a bit overstimulated? Sister Kristin M. Yee encourages us to reframe our understanding of ministering—an understanding that emphasizes fulfilling our covenants. She beautifully illustrates that ministering is not just an obligation to fulfill, but a profound opportunity to invite the Spirit into our lives and create a sacred space. It’s about edifying, encouraging, and healing those who might have lost hope or are struggling to exercise their faith.

Sister Yee shares a touching story about her father—a man who didn’t need elaborate lectures, programs, or perfectly crafted plans to feel the warmth of fellowship. All it took were two faithful servants of God who consistently showed up, embodying the love, light, and truth of our Heavenly Father. Week after week, year after year, they stood by him, guiding him to the temple. There were no grand gestures, no fanfare—just simple, covenant love in action. It was through this quiet, consistent effort that her father began to experience God’s presence and, in turn, rediscovered the love of the Father. He found within himself the capacity to love again, leading him to a deeper sense of purpose and meaning in life.

This is the essence of ministering that transforms individuals, strengthens families, rescues souls, and rewrites personal stories for the better.

Let’s take a moment to reflect: Have you ever felt unsure, unqualified, or awkward about ministering? While pondering this, consider another question: Have you ever felt uncertain, unqualified, or awkward about being ministered to? This message resonates deeply with me, and I hope it speaks to you as well.

Sister Yee addresses each of us directly, acknowledging that many of us may feel this way at times. She testifies that the Savior steps in to fill those gaps in our lives. He magnifies our smallest efforts, turning our simple presence into sacred moments of healing, restoration, and forgiveness. Through this, He invites the Spirit to embrace us, allowing us to feel His immense love as we share it with others.

Remember, this journey is not about achieving perfection; it’s about embracing genuine and faithful discipleship. It’s about stewardship—showing up with Christ and allowing Him to work through us, doing what only He can do.

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Gospel Principles: Lesson One – Our Heavenly Father

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God is real, God is our Heavenly Father, and He wants us to come to Know Him (John 17:3)

Have you ever gone through life with a quiet question that is rarely said out loud: “Is God really there…and does He actually know me?” It is a question that may show up in the middle of the night, in moments of loss and difficulty, or even in those moments of personal reflection and joy. A moment when something deep within us whispers that life has to mean more than survival and routine.

Here is the beautiful part about the restored Gospel of Jesus Christ. It does not simply answer the question with doctrine – it answers this question with a relationship. God is not some abstract force or a distant creator. He is our divine Heavenly Father. And once you see him this way, everything may change. May change how you pray, how you see yourself, and how you interpret personal struggles. It may even change how you might recognize His hand in your daily life.

Today, we are going to get back to basics and establish the fundamental and foundational doctrine of any Christian faith. Coming to know and understanding who our Heavenly Father is. This chapter from the Gospel Principles Manual opens the door in a simple, and profound conversational way. It is showing how we are to come to know and understand who God is through small, steady, spiritual practices that shape our hearts toward godliness.

In this post, and the attached video, I want to walk you through the core ideas of Chapter One. And I want to do this in a way that is accessible, personal, and grounded in lived discipleship. While the foundation may come from the Church’s official manual, the reflections and applications are my own – shaped by personal years of study and centered on faith-based conversations. My goal here is to help you not merely understand Latter-day Saint doctrine and teaching on God. The purpose is to assist in showing how you are may experience God – to see how knowing our Heavenly Father may bring clarity, peace, and purpose into everyday living.

Reader’s Note: This post, and video, draws from Gospel Principles, Chapter 1: Our Heavenly Father, published by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The core ideas come from the official manual, but the reflections, explanations, and applications shared here represent my own study and teaching approach. This adaptation is intended to support personal learning and devotional growth and should not be viewed as an official statement of Church doctrine.

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