Tag: Grace and Sobriety

Set the Sail – Faith Rests Upon God’s Character

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The destiny of one’s recovery is shaped by the idea of God a person carries. Traditional recovery thought teaches that newcomers enter a spiritual program where they are free to identify God “as they understand Him.” For some, this means the fellowship itself becomes a Higher Power; for others, it means any concept of a power greater than themselves.

Over time, a peculiar phrase emerged in recovery culture: “Your Higher Power can be anything — even a doorknob.” It is repeated so often that many assume it comes from the Big Book or the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions.

It does not.

Neither text suggests that an inanimate object can restore sanity, guide moral change, or receive a surrendered will. The “doorknob god” appears nowhere in AA’s foundational literature.

Anchor verse – Psalm 9:10: “Those who know your name put their trust in you, for you, O Lord, have not forsaken those who seek you.

The idea actually surfaced in the treatment centers of the 1970s and 1980s. As addiction treatment became professionalized — especially in secular or state‑funded programs — counselors avoided religious language to prevent the appearance of imposing faith on clients. To lower resistance, some staff used exaggerated examples: “Even a doorknob can be your Higher Power if it helps you get started.”

It was never meant to be literal. It was a strategy to reduce defensiveness.

But like many exaggerated teaching tools, it escaped its context. It became folklore. It became satire. Critics of 12‑step spirituality used it to mock the idea of a non‑religious Higher Power. Newcomers repeated it without understanding its origin. And eventually, it became a kind of shorthand for the early, clumsy attempts to describe surrender without demanding theology.

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When Confession Breaks the Illusion: Walking in the Light of Real Recovery

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William James once wrote: “For him who confesses, shams are over and realities have begun; he has exteriorized his rottenness.”

Confession ends the exhausting work of pretending. It pulls what is hidden into the light—not to shame us, but to free us. In recovery, confession is not a one‑time event; it is a rhythm, a posture, a way of walking honestly before God and others. It invites us to step into authenticity, shedding the masks we often wear and revealing the true selves beneath.

When we consider the act of confession, it is crucial to understand that it goes far beyond simply admitting wrongdoings. It encompasses acknowledging our vulnerabilities, our fears, and our shortcomings. It is about facing the parts of ourselves that we might prefer to keep hidden or buried deep within. Confession invites us into a space of liberation, where we can experience the healing power of honesty, not just with ourselves, but with those around us.

Anchor verse – 1 John 1:9 – “If we confess our sins, he who is faithful and just will forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

This divine reassurance underscores the importance of confession in our lives. This is never a one-and-done moment. Confessing our sins is an active part of our path and spiritual growth. There is a continuous invitation to engage in this practice, to reflect regularly on our actions and attitudes, and to communicate them with sincerity. The act of confession can take various forms: it might be through prayer, journaling, or discussions with trusted friends and mentors.

There is also a communal aspect to confession; it’s about allowing others to bear witness to our journey of growth. This sharing fosters deeper connections, trust, and support within our communities. Confession can also serve as a catalyst for accountability, encouraging us to maintain our commitments to growth and change.

And there is more to confessing than we may fully understand. What are some of the ways we may confess? And what does it refer to when it says to confess our sins? What exactly are we confessing? Most of us may answer that we are to confess any wrongdoing on our part. And that is definitely an aspect of confessing.

But it may also refer to confessing our failures, our doubts, and our feelings of inadequacy. It may involve voicing the pain we carry and the burdens we bear, creating an opportunity for healing. Confession is a profound act of vulnerability that invites grace and understanding into our lives, not only from God but also from those around us who may offer support and encouragement. Through confession, we can truly experience the freedom that comes with honesty, forgiveness, and a renewed sense of purpose on our spiritual journey.

Today – we are going to take a look at how confession is the very courage to stop pretending. To step out of the idea that we need to fake it till we make it. And to see how this all ties into a twelve-step recovery program for Christians walking a path of recovery, desiring to thrive in their sobriety.

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Yellow Journalism and the Rise of Social Media Gainsayers

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Yellow journalism once referred to the sensationalistic, lurid exaggerations of 19th‑century newspapers — the kind of “sensational chauvinism” that relied on distortion, outrage, and emotional manipulation to attract readers. The term itself emerged from the era of the Yellow Kid comic strip, whose popularity fueled a wave of sensational reporting and media manipulation. Today, the same spirit thrives, but its printing press is no longer ink and paper. It is the algorithm.

At its core, yellow journalism is not merely exaggeration, but an intricate perspective that is biased, zealous, and often militant in its distortion. This form of communication is driven by blind devotion to a cause, frequently accompanied by hostility toward opposing viewpoints. Historically, yellow journalism manifested in various forms such as political propaganda that aimed to shape public opinion by presenting information selectively or misleadingly. Social agitation often followed the sensational narratives promoted by journalists who prioritized flare over factual reporting, heightening tensions around contentious issues.

Furthermore, yellow journalism also found expression through religious polemics, where exaggerated claims and dramatic storytelling were employed to gain adherents or demonize rival beliefs. The fervor of the 19th century, characterized by the quest for readership, led to practices that set the tone for future media. In contemporary times, this distortion is propagated through digital platforms where algorithms curate content that reinforces existing beliefs, often leading to echo chambers.

As society moves deeper into the digital age, the implications of yellow journalism become more pervasive. Information can spread rapidly, while critical thinking and journalistic integrity may wane. The lessons of the past remind us that while sensationalism may attract attention, the long-term impact of such journalism can erode trust in media and polarize societies. It encourages a critical evaluation of news sources, urging consumers to discern truth amidst the cacophony of competing narratives. As such, the battle against yellow journalism is ongoing, requiring vigilance from both media producers and consumers alike to uphold the principles of responsible journalism.

Today, it thrives on social media

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WEEKLY RECAP: WALKING IN TRUTH — A Sacred Sobriety Reflection

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Our daily walk in recovery and thriving in sobriety provides a story. I love what the apostle Paul writes, “You yourselves are our letter, written on our hearts, known and read by all, and you show that you are a letter of Christ, prepared by us, written not with ink but with the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone but on tablets that are human hearts.” (2 Corinthians 3:2-3, NRSVUE). Our testimonies are living epistles. This is the reason I love what is said in the Celebrate Recovery rooms, ‘He took my mess and turned it into a message and took my test and turned it into a testimony.”

These stories are of struggle, of quiet faithfulness – and yet always a story of God’s sovereign and divine grace in our moments of weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). This past week, the devotional messages formed a single thread woven through four powerful themes.

  • Spiritual Discernment
  • Spiritual Direction
  • Mindful Prayer
  • Distinctiveness of a life transformed by Christ

Each one of these messages point us back to one central truth: Thriving in recovery and sobriety requires spiritual clarity, honest self-examination, and a heart anchored in Christ. And through the acrostics – we explored:

  • T.R.U.T.H
  • D.I.R.E.C.T.I.O.N
  • P.R.A.Y.E.R
  • H.O.L.Y

Hopefully you discovered a pathway that strengthens your heart, mind, and spirit; steadies the steps of anyone seeking lasting freedom.

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The True Saint in Recovery and Sobriety is Different

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There was no doubt in my mind that when I first desired to seek God – I did not want to allow Him full reign and residence in my heart. I only wanted Him when it was convenient. Never willing to fully surrender. After all, I had to do all that I was capable of doing and then seek Him to help pick up the slack where I was frustrated, needing rescue, or assistance.

There comes a moment in every recovery journey when you realize the life you’re stepping into cannot look like the life you’re leaving behind. Something in you knows—almost instinctively—that healing requires difference. Not perfection. Not performance. But a holy, courageous difference.

A.W. Tozer argues that the Church’s greatest influence comes not from blending in, but from standing apart: “Her power lies in her being different… and sinks as the difference diminishes.” In recovery, the same truth hits home: the more we resemble our old patterns, the more powerless we feel. The more we embrace the new life Christ offers, the more strength rises in us.

You don’t have to pretend you’re strong. You don’t have to manufacture holiness. You don’t have to force transformation. God is not asking you to be impressive—He’s asking you to be His. And belonging to Him will inevitably make you different. This is not merely a change in behavior or outward appearances; it’s a deep, spiritual metamorphosis that occurs within.

Anchor verse – Romans 12:2 — “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds…”

Tozer reminds us that the Church loses her witness when she tries to imitate the world. In a world where conformity is often encouraged, recovery teaches the same: compromise always costs more than it promises. Every time you choose to blend in instead of standing firm in your convictions, you jeopardize the unique calling God has placed on your life. But difference—holy difference—opens the door to freedom, clarity, and spiritual power. This holy difference not only sets you apart but also illuminates the path for others who might still be lost in their struggles.

As you navigate your recovery, remember that each step you take towards embracing your new identity in Christ is a victory. Recognize that transformation is a process, and each moment spent in genuine connection with God is a step forward. You are no longer defined by your past; rather, you are being reshaped into the person He has destined you to be.

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Pressing Into the Profit of Prayer

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Have you ever had someone challenge you regarding prayer? Maybe mock you for praying? Perchance you’ve had someone tell you that they no longer have faith in God because their prayers never were answered, and they questioned the existence of God.

The ancient skeptic in Job sneered, “What is the Almighty, that we should serve him? And what profit should we have if we pray to him?” (Job 21:15). Tozer notes that the tone was dripping with contempt, tossed aside “like Pilate, without waiting for a reply.” Yet Scripture and the lived testimony of the saints thunder back: there is profit in prayer—much every way.

Tozer writes, “An invitation to prayer is an invitation to omnipotence, for prayer engages the Omnipotent God and brings Him into our human affairs.” This statement is staggering and profound. It launches us into the reality that prayer transcends mere verbal expression; it allows us to interact with the divine authority of God Himself. Prayer is not a religious hobby; rather, it is the God-ordained means by which heaven bends low into human history. When we pray, we are not simply whispering into the void—we are summoning the God who parts seas, raises the dead, and renews the weary.

Perhaps the most compelling aspect of prayer is that it is not bound by the limitations of human understanding or experience. The act of prayer invites the supernatural into our mundane realities, connecting us with the Creator who desires to be intimately involved in our lives. How often do we overlook the opportunity to engage the infinite just because we cannot see immediate results? Tozer emphasizes this beautifully. “An invitation to prayer is an invitation to omnipotence, for prayer engages the Omnipotent God and brings Him into our human affairs.”

As Scripture reminds us, the anchor verse – Hebrews 11:6 — “Without faith it is impossible to please God, for whoever would approach him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.” In times of doubt and uncertainty, this verse serves as a crucial reminder of the foundational belief that our faith ignites our relationship with God—the very essence that fuels our prayers and hopes.

In a world that still echoes Job’s question, we stand firm on the testimony of the ages. Tozer reminds us that “God Himself has supplied the answer, and the universal consensus of the ages has added an Amen.” The saints testify across time: prayer works because God works. Prayer profits because God is present. Prayer transforms because God responds.

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Apostasy to Restoration: Lesson 7: Religion in the Roman Empire

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When T. Edgar Lyon first penned Lesson 7 of Apostasy to Restoration in 1960, he invited Latter-day Saints to step into a world where religion was not just a private conviction but a fundamental component of the machinery of empire. This bold assertion set the stage for a deeper exploration of the intricate interplay between faith, culture, and politics. Sixty years later, the landscape of scholarship has transformed dramatically, yet Lyon’s central insight remains strikingly relevant: to truly understand the need for a Restoration, we must first immerse ourselves in the complex milieu that shaped the early Christian Church.

This updated lesson builds upon Lyon’s foundational work, integrating modern archaeological discoveries, peer-reviewed historical research, and contemporary Latter-day Saint scholarship to form a more nuanced understanding of the context in which early Christianity emerged. What emerges from this scholarly synthesis is a clearer, richer, and more compelling picture of the Roman religious world—a world that was teeming with a pantheon of gods, replete with elaborate rituals, and governed by a political theology that made the act of Christian discipleship both radical and perilous.

In a society where loyalty to the state was intricately tied to acts of sacrifice and devotion, where citizens adeptly navigated multiple cults without a hint of contradiction, and where the pursuit of salvation was often sought through clandestine mystery rites and the favor of emperors, the Christian proclamation of “one Lord, one faith, one baptism” represented a profound challenge to the status quo—it was nothing less than a revolutionary stance. This declaration was, in essence, a radical reformation of the religious landscape, directly opposing the established norms that dictated the relationship between the individual, the divine, and the state.

Understanding that world is essential for grasping why the early Church fractured amidst various pressures and why a Restoration was not merely desirable but indeed inevitable. The tensions between emerging Christian beliefs and the entrenched systems of power were not just obstacles to be overcome; they underscored the urgent need for a return to core principles that could unify and reinvigorate the faith community. Lyon’s insights encourage us to reflect on our own circumstances in today’s religious environment, prompting critical questions about the nature of faith, the role of community, and the ongoing quest for spiritual authenticity in an increasingly complex world. As we navigate the remnants of an ancient tapestry interwoven with faith and politics, we find ourselves inspired to reconsider the implications of our shared history and the enduring quest for a true Restoration.

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We Must Test the Spirits of Recovery and Sobriety

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When recovery meets revelation, discernment becomes a moment of thriving in sobriety. We test substances for purity — why not spirits? The same vigilance that guards sobriety must guard faith. The relapse of the soul begins when we stop testing what we trust.

We find ourselves in a time when the mantra of “to thine own self be true” echoes throughout recovery circles, highlighting a growing trend that prioritizes subjective authenticity over absolute truths. This modern movement in recovery and sobriety often veers away from the profound spiritual truths embedded in Scripture and the Christian faith, diluting the very essence of what it means to be truly free.

In this era of counterfeit light, our culture is awash with spiritual noise—false prophets promising quick fixes, hollow promises of peace, and fleeting joys that inevitably fade. Many are turning to a version of recovery that embraces personal desire and subjective experience over divine guidance and genuine transformation.

Yet, Christ calls us to something deeper. He invites us not into cynicism or despair but into a clear and sober understanding of our identity in Him. True sobriety is not merely the absence of substances; it is the presence of a spirit anchored in truth. It is about discerning the lies that this world offers and embracing the flawless truth of God’s Word.

As we embark on this journey of genuine recovery, let us challenge the shallow waters of modern self-discovery and dive into the depths of spiritual sobriety. Surrendering to Christ means shedding the noise of empty promises and embracing the clarity that comes from knowing Him. True recovery is about reclaiming our lives from distraction, grounding ourselves in faith, and walking in the light of His truth.

In a world saturated with uncertainty, let us hold fast to the enduring hope found in Christ, where true transformation begins and lasting sobriety thrives. Are you ready to embrace a recovery journey that leads to true freedom?

Anchor Verse: “Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God; for many false prophets have gone out into the world.” – 1 John 4:1, NRSVUE

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“I Believe in the Communion of Saints”

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In our personal recovery journey, there needs to be a moment of clarity when one realizes they were never meant to heal alone. Isolation may have helped each one of us survive, but it is within communion and fellowship that we truly learn to thrive. A.W. Tozer poignantly expressed this truth, stating, “Men are made for each other, and this is never more apparent than in the church.” In today’s culture and society, fractures within families, persistent codependent patterns, cycles of addiction and relapse, as well as faith crises, continue to plague many. Yet, amid this turmoil, God offers something completely different: a spiritual home where wounded people can become whole.

The common narrative suggests, “the Gospel is true and perfect – but the people are not.” However, this perspective can lead individuals to believe that they do not need a community or fellowship. If one clings to this misleading notion, they are walking in deception and obeying the lies of the adversary. The truth is that our Heavenly Father fervently calls us into fellowship with one another, urging us to form a united front in our faith, all to fulfill the law of Christ as articulated in Galatians 6:2, which encourages us to bear one another’s burdens.

Anchor verse – Acts 2:42 (NRSVUE): They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.

Today’s devotional delves into and explores A.W. Tozer’s conviction that the Church, as Christ’s redeemed community, stands as the most significant body on Earth. For those in recovery, the communion of saints is not a luxury; it is a prerequisite for true spiritual growth and discipleship. We grow best, heal deepest, and thrive most fully when we engage with others who, like us, are being transformed by grace. This message seeks to unpack Tozer’s profound insights, apply them to the realm of recovery, and offer a practical acrostic—S.A.I.N.T.S.—to help individuals embody the communion that God has designed for us.

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Committed to the Whole Message of Recovery and Sobriety

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I want to take this moment and ask you a personal question. Are you a Christian walking the path of recovery – sober, yet still battling fear, doubt, maybe a lingering faith crisis, or feeling stuck where you are not truly thriving? How many of us have tasted the sweet relief of initial forgiveness through God’s sovereign grace and tender mercies? Only to watch it fade and leave us unsatisfied. Finding ourselves cycling back to old patterns, people, and even those places we were to come away from?

A. W. Tozer’s words are quite bold for us today. These words come from The Set of the Sail, and they cut through the noise. And that noise is this idea that conversion does not often work for people as much as it may have once did. Maybe it is because modern culture and society have settled for a watered-down version of the Gospel. And maybe, many have settled for a watered-down version of a message for recovery and sobriety.

Today’s devotional will hopefully anchor you in the full message of Christ – pardoned and transformed in a newness of life. A life that not only equips you to navigate real recovery, real sobriety, and genuine spiritual revival but also fills your heart with the joy of living in the abundance of His grace. This is a life that recognizes the deep-rooted struggles of fear and doubt yet chooses to stand firm in faith, believing in the promises of God that assure us we are never alone in our journey.

As you read through this, I pray you will find direction, courage, and hope grounded in God’s unchanging truth. The truth that He is with you every step of the way, offering strength when you feel weak and guidance when the path seems unclear.

Anchor verse for Today: “For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation to all, training us to renounce impiety and worldly passions, and in the present age to live lives that are self-controlled, upright, and godly, while we wait for the blessed hope and the manifestation of the glory of our Great God and Savior, Jesus Christ. He it is who gave himself for us that he might redeem us from all iniquity and purify for himself a people of his own who are zealous for good deeds.” (Titus 2:11-14, NRSVUE).

It is time we face reality, folks: we are in a society and culture fixated on quick spiritual fixes and partial truths. A. W. Tozer delivers quite the wake-up call for all Christians, and specifically for many of us on a path of recovery and sobriety. In his work The Set of the Sail, he warns that many conversions leave people unchanged because the gospel has been reduced to the “good news” of pardon alone. A gospel that is peddled as, per Dietrich Bonhoeffer, cheap grace. However, the New Testament calls each of us to repentance, temperance, righteousness, godliness, and the amendment of one’s life, separation from the world and culture, in order to be cross-bearing disciples of Christ – living a mindful crucified life through Him (Galatians 2:20).

This devotional will integrate Tozer’s wisdom with strong scriptures in order to help you move beyond spiritual and recovery survivalism to thriving, abundant living in sobriety and faith. Overcoming fear, doubt, and feeling stuck once and for all requires not just a moment of spiritual awakening but a commitment to a lifelong journey of transformation. This process involves persistent prayer, engaging with Scripture, and surrounding yourself with a community of believers who understand the struggles and victories of the recovery path.

By leaning into God’s Word, inviting the Holy Spirit’s guidance, and holding each other accountable, we can cultivate an environment where growth is not only possible but expected. Embrace the fullness of His grace and allow it to empower you to break free from the chains of the past, emerging into a life characterized by hope, purpose, and unshakeable joy. May this devotional be a beacon that guides you into deeper waters of faith and recovery, encouraging you to experience the richness of life that God intends for you.

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