This Crucified Life: What I No Longer Miss

What is the purpose of this message today? Why focus on what I no longer miss? Because today’s message is about what dies and what rises within each one of us. Luke 9 is the clearest, the sharpest, and the most recovery aligned call Jesus ever gives. It is a call to deny self. A call for us to take up our cross daily. A call to follow after Him. And it is one where we are asked to count the cost because it requires that we lose our life in order to save it. It is where we come to the end of ourselves, attempting to gain the appeasement of those around us, to gain what the world may offer us, yet lose our very soul in the process. It speaks directly to the “things I no longer miss” in my own addiction, codependency, chasing the girlies, and pretending to be someone I never was.

Welcome back, fellow travelers. If you haven’t watched the recent devotional in our Set of the Sail series— “The Lord Giveth Knowledge: The Spiritual Awakening of Christian Recovery”—I encourage you to do that. In that message, we talked about walking the crucified life… not coping, not managing, not surviving… but dying to self so that Christ may live fully in us. Having a real genuine spiritual awakening to the things of God.

Today, we’re going deeper. Because if we’re honest, many of us have spent years trying to “manage” life on life’s terms. But Sacred Sobriety is not about management. It’s about transformation. It’s about stepping boldly into the victory Christ already secured.

You and I have twenty‑four hours today. And I want to take a few of those minutes to speak directly to the wounds, addictions, anxieties, fears, and faith crises that have shaped us.

Because there are things I no longer miss. And I want to show you why.

Anchor Verse — Luke 9:23–26: “If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me. For those who want to save their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will save it.

This is the heartbeat of recovery. This is the heartbeat of discipleship. This is the heartbeat of Sacred Sobriety.

Jesus is not calling us to cope. He is calling us to die— to ego, to self‑will, to the old patterns, to the old wounds, to the old survival strategies. And in that death… He calls us to live. To live a blessed and abundant life. To live with peace of mind and joy in our hearts. Yet to do this – he invites us in because we are heavy laden, weary travelers and are in much need of rest (Matthew 11:28-29).

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Episode 8: From Hiding to Healing – The God Who Calls Us Out of Shame (Genesis 3:8–10)

There comes a moment in every person’s journey—especially in recovery—when the sound of God’s presence stirs something deep within us. We feel the pull to step out from hiding, yet the weight of shame, fear, and regret urges us to remain in the shadows. But the God who seeks us is not hunting us down to condemn us; He is calling us back to life. This devotional invites you to walk out of the trees and into His restoring light.

Introduction

“Hello and welcome, fellow travelers, to Sacred Sobriety: A Path for the Soul.” Today we continue our journey through the Discipline of Deliverance by returning to one of Scripture’s most haunting and hopeful moments—when God walked into the garden calling for His children. In recovery, we know this moment well: the tension between hiding and healing, between fear and freedom. Let us listen again to the God who still calls our name.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, we come before You with open hands and trembling hearts. Teach us to hear Your voice without running from it. Strip away the fear that keeps us hidden and clothe us with Your mercy, Your truth, and Your restoring love. Breathe courage into our souls as we step into Your presence. Amen.

Anchor Verse — Genesis 3:8–10 (NASB 2020)

“They heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden. Then the Lord God called to the man, and said to him, ‘Where are you?’ He said, ‘I heard the sound of You in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid myself.’”

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Pursuing Peace and Edifying Others: A Christian Perspective on Recovery

 Key Passage: “Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another.”Romans 14:19 (KJV)

When we step onto the path of recovery, we are faced with the sobering reality of how destructive life had become under the enslavement of addiction. Relationships have been fractured, health has been compromised, and for many, there is a loss of identity, direction, and peace. Beyond these outward losses, we come face to face with a deeper truth: we have been living in a state of spiritual and emotional insanity, disconnected from God’s purpose for our lives.

Yet in this brokenness, God offers hope—a way to peace, healing, and restoration. Recovery is not just about abstaining from harmful behaviors; it is about embracing transformation through Christ. It is about seeking the things that make for peace, both within ourselves and in our relationships with others.

Recognizing the Need for Peace

Romans 14:19 calls us to pursue peace and to focus on building each other up. But before we can edify others, we must first allow God to restore peace in our own lives. For those in recovery, this means acknowledging the chaos and insanity caused by addiction and surrendering to the truth that we cannot restore ourselves.

“We came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.”

This step, rooted in humility, is a pivotal moment in recovery and in our faith. It aligns with the teaching of Proverbs 3:5-6:

“Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths.”

When we stop striving to fix ourselves and instead surrender to God’s guidance, we open the door to His peace—a peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).

Peace Through Transformation

True peace is not the absence of hardship but the presence of God in the midst of it. In recovery, peace comes as we allow God to transform us inwardly. Paul writes in Romans 12:2:

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”

This transformation involves letting go of old ways of thinking, acting, and reacting. It is a process of putting to death the destructive patterns that once enslaved us so that we can rise into a new life of hope and peace.

  • Old Life: Addiction, shame, guilt, and brokenness.
  • New Life: Sobriety, forgiveness, purpose, and serenity through Christ.

Just as Christ’s death and resurrection bring eternal life to those who believe, our willingness to die to self allows us to rise into the newness of life in recovery.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” – 2 Corinthians 5:17

The Sacrifice of Surrender

One of the hardest truths to accept in recovery is the reality of our own insanity. Admitting this is humbling, but it is also freeing. When we surrender our brokenness to God, we are no longer bound by shame or self-reliance. Instead, we are free to embrace His grace and His plan for our lives.

Jesus Himself calls us to lay down our burdens and take up His yoke:

“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.” – Matthew 11:28-29

This rest, or serenity, is the peace that comes from surrendering fully to God’s will and trusting Him to lead us on the path to recovery.

Peace and Restoration in Action

Pursuing peace in recovery is an active process. It involves daily choices to seek the things that build us up spiritually, emotionally, and physically. These choices not only bring peace to our own lives but also allow us to edify others.

  • Prayer and Meditation: Spending time in God’s presence, asking for His guidance, and meditating on His Word.
  • Forgiveness: Letting go of resentment and seeking to restore relationships where possible.
  • Service: Encouraging others in their recovery journey and offering support to those in need.
  • Gratitude: Focusing on God’s blessings and giving thanks in all circumstances (1 Thessalonians 5:18).

As we practice these disciplines, we become peacemakers—not only in our own lives but also in the lives of others.

Reflective Questions

Take a moment to reflect on these questions:

  1. What areas of your life feel chaotic or lacking in peace? Have you surrendered these areas to God?
  2. What steps can you take today to pursue peace in your recovery journey?
  3. How can you build up and encourage someone else who is walking a similar path?
  4. In what ways have you experienced God’s transformative power in your recovery?

A Call to Action

Today, choose to follow the things that make for peace. Seek God’s presence in prayer, meditate on His Word, and commit to living in a way that reflects His grace and love. Take one step, however small, toward restoration—whether it’s mending a relationship, forgiving yourself, or simply thanking God for the progress you’ve made.

“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the children of God.” – Matthew 5:9

As you navigate your recovery journey, remember that peace and serenity come not from striving but from surrendering. Allow God to work in and through you, and trust that His plan for your life is good.

Share Your Thoughts

How has God brought peace to your recovery journey? What practical steps have helped you pursue peace and restoration?

We’d love to hear your insights and experiences. Share your thoughts in the comments below, and let’s encourage one another as we walk this path together.

A Prayer for Peace and Restoration

Heavenly Father, thank You for Your promise of peace and restoration. I surrender my brokenness to You and ask for Your guidance as I navigate my recovery journey. Help me to let go of the things that no longer serve me and to embrace the new life You have for me. Teach me to be a peacemaker and to build others up with love and grace. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Today’s Meditation:

“I will follow after the things that make for peace, trusting God to guide me on my journey of recovery and restoration.”

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Pursuing Peace and Edifying Others: A Christian Perspective on Recovery

 Key Passage: “Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another.”Romans 14:19 (KJV)

When we step onto the path of recovery, we are faced with the sobering reality of how destructive life had become under the enslavement of addiction. Relationships have been fractured, health has been compromised, and for many, there is a loss of identity, direction, and peace. Beyond these outward losses, we come face to face with a deeper truth: we have been living in a state of spiritual and emotional insanity, disconnected from God’s purpose for our lives.

Yet in this brokenness, God offers hope—a way to peace, healing, and restoration. Recovery is not just about abstaining from harmful behaviors; it is about embracing transformation through Christ. It is about seeking the things that make for peace, both within ourselves and in our relationships with others.

Recognizing the Need for Peace

Romans 14:19 calls us to pursue peace and to focus on building each other up. But before we can edify others, we must first allow God to restore peace in our own lives. For those in recovery, this means acknowledging the chaos and insanity caused by addiction and surrendering to the truth that we cannot restore ourselves.

“We came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.”

This step, rooted in humility, is a pivotal moment in recovery and in our faith. It aligns with the teaching of Proverbs 3:5-6:

“Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths.”

When we stop striving to fix ourselves and instead surrender to God’s guidance, we open the door to His peace—a peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).

Peace Through Transformation

True peace is not the absence of hardship but the presence of God in the midst of it. In recovery, peace comes as we allow God to transform us inwardly. Paul writes in Romans 12:2:

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”

This transformation involves letting go of old ways of thinking, acting, and reacting. It is a process of putting to death the destructive patterns that once enslaved us so that we can rise into a new life of hope and peace.

  • Old Life: Addiction, shame, guilt, and brokenness.
  • New Life: Sobriety, forgiveness, purpose, and serenity through Christ.

Just as Christ’s death and resurrection bring eternal life to those who believe, our willingness to die to self allows us to rise into the newness of life in recovery.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” – 2 Corinthians 5:17

The Sacrifice of Surrender

One of the hardest truths to accept in recovery is the reality of our own insanity. Admitting this is humbling, but it is also freeing. When we surrender our brokenness to God, we are no longer bound by shame or self-reliance. Instead, we are free to embrace His grace and His plan for our lives.

Jesus Himself calls us to lay down our burdens and take up His yoke:

“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.” – Matthew 11:28-29

This rest, or serenity, is the peace that comes from surrendering fully to God’s will and trusting Him to lead us on the path to recovery.

Peace and Restoration in Action

Pursuing peace in recovery is an active process. It involves daily choices to seek the things that build us up spiritually, emotionally, and physically. These choices not only bring peace to our own lives but also allow us to edify others.

  • Prayer and Meditation: Spending time in God’s presence, asking for His guidance, and meditating on His Word.
  • Forgiveness: Letting go of resentment and seeking to restore relationships where possible.
  • Service: Encouraging others in their recovery journey and offering support to those in need.
  • Gratitude: Focusing on God’s blessings and giving thanks in all circumstances (1 Thessalonians 5:18).

As we practice these disciplines, we become peacemakers—not only in our own lives but also in the lives of others.

Reflective Questions

Take a moment to reflect on these questions:

  1. What areas of your life feel chaotic or lacking in peace? Have you surrendered these areas to God?
  2. What steps can you take today to pursue peace in your recovery journey?
  3. How can you build up and encourage someone else who is walking a similar path?
  4. In what ways have you experienced God’s transformative power in your recovery?

A Call to Action

Today, choose to follow the things that make for peace. Seek God’s presence in prayer, meditate on His Word, and commit to living in a way that reflects His grace and love. Take one step, however small, toward restoration—whether it’s mending a relationship, forgiving yourself, or simply thanking God for the progress you’ve made.

“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the children of God.” – Matthew 5:9

As you navigate your recovery journey, remember that peace and serenity come not from striving but from surrendering. Allow God to work in and through you, and trust that His plan for your life is good.

Share Your Thoughts

How has God brought peace to your recovery journey? What practical steps have helped you pursue peace and restoration?

We’d love to hear your insights and experiences. Share your thoughts in the comments below, and let’s encourage one another as we walk this path together.

A Prayer for Peace and Restoration

Heavenly Father, thank You for Your promise of peace and restoration. I surrender my brokenness to You and ask for Your guidance as I navigate my recovery journey. Help me to let go of the things that no longer serve me and to embrace the new life You have for me. Teach me to be a peacemaker and to build others up with love and grace. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Today’s Meditation:

“I will follow after the things that make for peace, trusting God to guide me on my journey of recovery and restoration.”

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